The new gal will not have had an opportunity to show any of her less then glamorous sides and she will always look better in his eyes than the woman that he has dated long enough to see that she is less then perfect.
When a man picks one woman to date for a while and lets her stand on her own merits, he will find out if she is a good match. ” A man’s doubts are dispelled not by what a woman does for him, but by how she responds to what he does for her.
,” and find clarity to move forward into an exclusive relationship or to stop seeing this particular woman and start again with someone else.
He can start to ask himself certain questions, such as, “Could I possibly be the right man for her? It is very important for the man to do little things for the woman so that he can repeatedly test and experience the idea that he has the power to make her happy.
The ultimate question is: "Should I turn this ‘thing’ into a ‘real’ relationship? This is a confusing stage in the dating process, with one or both partners wondering if they are ready to be exclusive, or if they should still date other people. ” Uncertainty can strike with lightening force in a budding relationship.If he compares a woman who he has been dating for a few weeks to a gal he met last week, the competition will be very unfair. We could actually be dating our soul mate, but during this stage of dating we may not know it.
” As soon as we begin to feel that we would really like to get to know someone, it is quite natural to suddenly start questioning the relationship's potential and to feel unsure and insecure.