But hey, you wanted her boyfriend so maybe you'll want her name, too. The chances of successful group dates are highly unlikely and if you want to ever bring your bf to those concerts you always attend....well, think again.
Basically, don't be the bitch who dates your best friend's ex.
She loves you and wants you to be happy, but if you ultimately want the same, you won't choose dating her recent ex to be your newest source of happiness.
Honestly, it should never have been considered anyway, so do yourself a favor and don't put your friendship at risk.5. Not only are you pissing your best friend off, but your new bf's family has always viewed you as his girlfriend's best friend. Considering they always associated the two of you together, there's a real good chance you're gonna get called your bestie's name. If for some reason your best friend chooses not to defriend you, your social outings are gonna be awkward af from now on.
It was an uncomfortable security, which we both knew would inevitably change. Not wanting to hurt him, I kept my conflict inside until it imploded into a hazy mess.Dating your best friend is a major risk, but holds the promise of amazing rewards. Five years down the road, if you're still single and interested in her leftovers, then perhaps you both can consider it. You've been compared to your best friend your whole life, do you really want to add your role in bed to that list? I'm just curious what makes you think that they will treat you any differently?If he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you, regardless of how perfect you think you'll be for him.4. Just because your best friend wants the best for you doesn't mean she wants you to date her ex-boyfriend. Unless for some odd reason your bestie is 100 percent OK with it, even considering her ex automatically qualifies you as a bad friend. I love my friends, but sharing the same sex partner as them just doesn't strike me as a turn on. You've heard every terrible thing that they did to your best friend.
That goes without saying, but since some seem to forget this, it bears repeating.