So when the comparison is down-to-the-minute detail: She wins. When a man is successful and wealthy, he wants a young vibrant woman whom he can enjoy in bed and high society alike.And another thing: No matter how old the man is, he still wants to go out with a younger woman.
So when a beautiful woman in her 20s or 30s meets a man who is in his 50s and has the world in the palm of his hand, that is sexy and alluring to her.
I recently had a 78-year-old client who wouldn't even consider a woman older than 50.
If you are 25 years old as you are reading this, let me put this in perspective: That would be like dating a 55-year-old.
What counts is that they are sitting across from a woman who is beautiful, intelligent and alive.
She won't complain about her ex; she won't moan about how tired she is because she was doing housework all day with three whining children, and then had to prepare dinner and take the dog to the vet. This woman is out to have a good time and then come home and have wild and passionate sex on the kitchen counter or the bathroom floor. And before some of you tell me about your strong sex drive after 40, consider this: Her 25-year-young spirit comes in a shape of a 25-year-young, coin-bounce-off-ass body. But hiding your head in the sand and insisting that "real men" don't want younger women, they want an equal is naïve at best and detrimental to your own love life at worst.
As a result, I cannot find a husband for a 47-year-old schoolteacher with two kids and three mortgages. You won't meet anyone sitting at home and complaining about not being able to meet anyone.