Fall in love with “you.” Deepening your connection to yourself with help you enjoy a more fulfilling life whether or not you’re single.Christine Dunn aka the Lesbian Love Guru, is a dating and relationship expert who specializes in helping lesbians attract their soulmates and create deeply connected, passionate relationships that last.But a negative attitude will push other women away. It’s important to have other people in your life for emotional support. Take the time right now to cultivate those connections.You’ll start giving off “bad vibes.” So try to keep a positive attitude and enjoy the dating process. Being single gives you the time and the space to focus on you.Make sure you take time off from dating to recharge your batteries and enjoy NOT looking for Ms. Who knows, she may just wander into your life when you least expect it! Listen, stressing yourself out and getting worried isn’t helping anything or anyone. But don’t waste your energy on worrying and stressing yourself out for nothing. Be a better friend, go on a special trip with your Mom, or help your brother build a fence around his backyard (Your brother obviously needs a fence).It’s easy to fall into the trap of being grumpy, frustrated or sad about your dating prospects when it’s not going well. Growing other relationships in your life will sustain you while you look for your dream woman AND help you create a healthier relationship with her later on.And at some point, maybe late at night when you’re feeling particularly lonely, you think: If you spend more time on lesbian dating apps, trolling Craigslist, or going to Meetups than you do sleeping, you may need to take a break to get your sanity back.Becoming too focused on dating can actually stress you out more since it consumes a disproportionate amount of your time and energy. You’ll buy a house in the ‘burbs and go kayaking on the weekends…
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You’ll feel much better about it and you’ll radiate good energy to everyone you meet – including that cute clerk at the shoe store. If you’re chatting with women online or at bars, just have fun and be yourself. Join groups that interest you or sign up for classes you’ve always dreamt of taking.
Even when you’re on a bad date, you can still find something to enjoy (the food, the movie, or planning your escape – bathroom window, anyone? Get in touch with yourself and what you really want in your life.
Christine lives with her partner Leah, their kids, and a zoo of pets in Ithaca, NY.
Dating can be super stressful, especially if you’ve been at it for a while.
You can start to feel burned-out, stressed out, overwhelmed, and unmotivated to keep on doing it.