Sure, you can frequent the girly bars, there’s plenty of them, and a young lady like that might be just what you are looking for. You should make the time to get onto a Vietnamese dating site and learn a little about how the women think and behave.
But do you really want to be lying half-awake every night to make sure she doesn’t disappear with your wallet, camera and smartphone? Understand their ties to their families and traditional values with regard to sex and relationships.
One of the legacies of that conflict is that the women in Vietnam remain ever hopeful that a nice young western lad will come and take them away from their current life.
SE Asian women are looking for a long term relationship so it’s not all that easy at times to find one who just wants to be your girlfriend on your holiday to her country.
In Thailand or the Philippines, you can get the woman into bed the first night.Don’t be surprised or overcome with the number of responses you will receive. Don’t forget to make sure you are staying at a ‘guest friendly’ hotel.Not all hotels will allow you to bring a girl back to your room.Don’t be disappointed if that doesn’t happen in Vietnam.If the girl lives at home, your chances of getting her to stay the night with you at your hotel are rather slim.
You should have found out all that stuff before you made the date with her, right? The same went for my times I lived in the Philippines and Thailand. Beautiful locations and still somewhat untouched by western influences once you move out of the two big cities, Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh.