Let’s see a tell-tale list of signs for women to know when he IS interested.
I, like most women, think we have guys figured out but are so wrong most of the time.
Keep in mind this is an international relationship and not the boy who lives 30 minutes away and I can meet him anytime.
So how do I know if it’s worth it or if it’s all gonna be like a giant bomb exploding around me because what we have online or the phone just can’t be sustained “in real life.” I would like to know what to look for.
Dear Charoa, I trust you’re asking me if this relationship is real, as opposed to the person.
Because believe me, there are people overseas who are out to scam you out of your money, and you should be aware of that.
I remember one nice Midwestern man calling American Singles customer service (where I was working in 2001) to complain about a Russian woman he had met on the site.
I have seen a lot of interesting questions about dating and the internet.
So here is mine: How do you know if this guy that talks to you on the phone for hours every day…and lives overseas…is for real?!?
Apparently, he had fallen in love with this woman, who, in turn, asked him to send her 00 so she could move to the United States.
Generally, scammers will show interest in older women or men who haven’t been getting much attention online.
Then, they’ll develop a rapport over a few weeks and ask you to send money.