champagne and therefore spent way more time dancing to Blank Space and dipping cheese in ranch dressing and virtually no time talking to my soon-to-be boyfriend.
Just a week after my 23rd birthday we were invited skiing with our two friends who had just started dating, my friend broke her wrist, and Jordan and I spent a great deal of the day talking to one another.
), but rather that I couldn’t imagine our lives would mesh well together.
I was a full time nanny, he was the owner of a construction company.
It wasn’t because I wasn’t attracted to him (I was!
I was sick of guys who saw me as a blonde barbie kind of girl, and Jordan was just the opposite.
Not long after we took a road trip to California together, said “I love you” for the first time on Valentine’s day and the rest…it’s not so distant history.
Looking back there are a lot of reasons Jordan and I shouldn’t have met.
As Jordan and I got to know each other better I realized how comfortable I was around him, he made me laugh, he never pressured of pushed me physically (in fact our first few dates I didn’t even realize were dates, oops) and I felt as if he understood me on a deeper level.
As someone who always feels misunderstood and misrepresented that last part was huge.