In order to even get there, however, a man has to earn and prove that he is worth his salt rather than having it bestowed upon him by me for no reason.
I texted him a few times this week but he hasn’t responded and I don’t understand what’s happening. It is not something I am fond of emotionally for any extended period of time unless I know that there is a strong man’s hand beneath my back providing support.The scenario in which you find yourself is simple and shouldn’t be complicated: If he was interested in you for anything above and beyond that, he would have made it clear (likely before you, according to research).That you have told him you want more and he has hit the Avoidance Button is not complicated. He’s not sitting around with his mates pondering the Pro-s and Con-s of being with you. (A) Not thinking of you at all; and (B) Texting other women and solidifying another booty call or calls scenario. In fact, it sucks the big one that the boy whom you like isn’t the boy who likes you back – we have all, absolutely every single one of us, been there. I have been sleeping with a guy for 3 months now regularly and I think he might be sleeping with other women because we agreed that this was just hooking up. Which is the perfect segue into: I too have a beaver.
He’s not having sleepless nights wondering if this will work long term. Do yourself a favour and don’t wallow; instead, have a few good cries with your girlfriends and then get back out into the dating game.