(I think they call this "failure to launch.") I went out all the time and hung out with my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly ever get a phone number or date.And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys I asked myself that over and over again.First, it's not the same as just learning the "notes" on sheet music. You need someone who's been through all the same things you have. Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. On the other hand, when I learned the right steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway. Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden code..." And then you'll get more and more success.I'd ask guys what they were doing to get women interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. And the other cool thing is that when you know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat your successes. Here are a couple tips I learned along the way that will help you...I started to get really frustrated, and then I even got angry with women over it.I felt myself blaming them for my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem.A few years back, I had what you might call a crisis.
I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different? Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right. But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws.
I went for about a year without a girlfriend of any kind.
I was meeting the occasional girl, but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground.
Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.
When you feel like you're not as good as other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man.
I call this technique "Tease to Please", and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense mechanisms against meeting 'strange' men.