Also given how many closets most gay women live with, only a miniscule percentage ever really come out.
So if you are "coming out" to yourself and being openly proud of your own sexuality, get prepared for the spotlight.
Well-meaning lezzie couples will try and fix you with friends, and you will get more than your dose of dating advice and phone numbers.
Names of women who may be interested will be dropped and you will be the topic of much conversation.
You will be asked to dance, advised to loosen up and politely told to get onto the whirligig of sex, lust and smoke!
But let me assure you, this spotlight is temporary with no exception!
If you are reasonably presentable, own your own wheels/pad and are financially stable, women will woo you and how! You will be quizzed on everything— from past, present to minutiae like favourite colour and fantasy!
You will be invited to house parties, sleepovers, community events, movie screenings, late night drives; and discover more BFF’s than Paris Hilton in a few weeks!
By Tappy Tippy It’s a minefield— when you are dating someone of the same sex.
And especially if the sex happens to be the fairer one! You deal with the same issues— shopping, PMS, body-weight issues, gossip and then the sulks, mood swings, tantrums and the joy. Here are my rules to make your way through the Indian lesbian dating scene…Rule No 1: You are hot property but act fast Yes, you are hot property!
The limelight will stay perhaps only till you give in— and change your status from single/virgin to complicated, in a relationship or a slut on heat!
Also, only until the next new attractive, single, independent face walks into the lesbian scene...
Bi-curious, Bi-sexual, Women in open Rrelationships, married but mingling with the Same Sex…
Many labels abound and few women wear the tag of being lesbian with ease!