The average width of an erect penis is about 4 3/4 inches around, and generally it isn’t until a penis is over 6 inches in circumference that some partners will start to feel it becomes a little challenging.
Having a large penis can be challenging, but there’s much you can do to make the experience more pleasurable for your partner: Wait ’til she’s ready As a woman becomes aroused, her vagina expands and produces natural lubrication in anticipation of intercourse.
This position also gives her control of the rate of penetration.
When it comes to sex, trust me, bigger isn’t always better – but you’ll almost never hear a guy complain that his penis is too large.
Quite the opposite: As more and more guys get their ideas about genital anatomy from porn, I see increasing numbers of men who erroneously think that their penises are too small.
Kissing, touching, and oral or manual stimulation can boost her arousal so when it’s time for intercourse, she’ll be ready.
Use lubricant Lubricant can go a long way to easing intercourse for women. There’s a wide variety of lubes out there, from thin and slippery to thicker and more viscous.
To prevent breakage, remember to use a lube that’s compatible with the type of condom you’re using. Choose the right positions You’ll want to try out different sexual positions to see which work best for you and your partner.
That said, many women may have sex before they’re fully physically aroused—something that may work very well with smaller or average-sized penises, but which can cause discomfort when their partner has a larger member.
Just as plenty of foreplay can help partners of men with smaller penises, it can benefit your partner, too.
And even when a woman is aroused, and her vagina expands another inch or so, it still isn’t as deep as the length of the average guy.
As I discuss in my book Penis Problems: A Men’s Guide, most women would agree that girth is usually more important than length when it comes to enjoying intercourse – that’s because there’s an abundance of erectile tissue that surrounds the opening of the vagina.
But when it comes to having real sex in the real world, it’s better to have a real average-sized penis than a pumped-up penis.
First off, when you consider that the average vagina is only about 3 inches deep, an average sized guy will certainly be able to reach her cervix with his erection.